30 Questions for Couples to Keep the Spark Alive

So this is a post I found on a site – I’ll put the link in the bottom- and I really liked the idea.

Get together in a cosy moment with your partner and ask each other all of these or just a few of these questions.
You’re guaranteed to learn some new things about your partner.

Have fun!

#1 What’s the one secret you’ve been too embarrassed to tell me?

#2 Does it bother you if I look at another person and say he/she is sexy?

#3 Have you ever snooped on me behind my back?

#4 If there’s one thing you’d want to change about me, what is it?

#5 If we hadn’t met each other, where would you be right now?

#6 When was the last time you grazed against a sexy someone’s body accidentally?

#7 How would you describe love?

#8 Tell me five instances where you think we’ve had the most amazing sex.

#9 Reveal a sex confession you haven’t told me yet. It doesn’t matter if it’s a weak confession.

#10 What if I told you I was bisexual?

#11 What would you think if you caught me watching porn? Would you get turned on?

#12 What was on your mind the last time we were having sex?

#13 The average duration of sex for most couples is around ten minutes. How long do you think we last?

#14 The average frequency of sex for couples is about eight times a month. How many times a month do you feel is ideal?

#15 Of all the things you do to me sexually, what do you think turns me on the most?

#16 What’s the most erotic thing a guy and a girl can do together?

#17 What’s the most recent awkward moment you experienced that I don’t know about?

#18 Tell me a sexual fantasy you like, one you haven’t told me yet.

#19 Do you think you can read my mind, what am I thinking right now?

#20 Have you every indulged in PDA (Public Display of Affection) with me in front of someone else just to make them jealous?

#21 What’s one manipulative behavior of mine which pisses you off?

#22 If you had to give me a funny nickname based on my personality or some part of me, what would it be?

#23 Right now, what would you like, mind-blowing sex or a cuddle in a hammock to watch the stars?

#24 If we were at a nude beach together, would you get naked and flash at someone, or would you want me to get completely naked?

#25 Have you ever wanted to buy a sex toy, but hesitated?

#26 Celebs or friends, name one person you would want to sleep with if you were single *other than me, of course*?

#27 If I called you a horny pervert, how would you confront my accusation?

#28 Why do you think some couples end up cheating on each other?

#29 How could we make our sex life more exciting?

#30 If you caught me in a room with an attractive person, and I tell you that nothing’s going on, would you believe me?


Source: http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/better-love/questions-for-couples-to-keep-the-spark-alive


The bathroom door opened.
She went in and plugged the heater in before opening opening the taps to let the stream of water into the bath.
After a few minutes she slipped into the water, top of her feet first, then her whole foot and elegantly she slid in completely.
The nice warm water surrounding her naked body.
Welcoming it. Softening it.
All the aches in her body went away, as if she was magically healed by the touch of the water.
She closed her eyes, finding a moment of peace at last.
A quiet, peaceful, painless moment.

Few minutes later she opened her eyes again.
She felt reborn, different.

It was as if all her troubles, all her pain had been washed away with the water.
All she smelled now was her strawberry shower gel
the smell of flowers.
All the smells she loved in one place.
On her body.
Surrounding her.

It was the smell of hope.
Of rebirth.
She opened her eyes once more and smiled.
Because she knew that all things weren’t lost at all.

She was back.
Better, and stronger than before.


These Words Are My Own

I want to write about these things that I feel in my heart,
coming from within, from my soul.
I want to talk about what it is that you do to me, 
but words simply aren’t enough, capable to express what it is that I feel.

Because baby, looking into your gorgeous eyes
I burn with the heaviest desire.
I die because I want you so badly
that it just wouldn’t be healthy anymore.

I need you, constantly.
Every heartbeat of mine needs to be answered by one of yours.
I breath the air you breathe.
I would kill for one of your kisses, because they are pure drugs to me.

I need you, I love you, I’d kill for you, die for you.
A day without you is a day wasted.
For almost a year long, I’ve been calling you mine, all mine.
Showering you with love.

Please promise me that we’ll do our best to keep it this way.
To stay the adorable, cute, cuddly couple that I’ve grown to love so much.
Our passion and love is what makes us this strong.
This special.

I love you more than I could ever love anyone else.
You really are my one true love.


Because I Need You To

Kiss me, like that very first time.
Touch me, like you did once.
Hold me, like you never held me before.
Love me, as if it’s the last time.

Kiss me, because I need you to.
Touch me, because I long for you.
Hold me, because I need to feel your arms around me.
Love me, to show me that everything ‘ll be alright.

Kiss me, with your sweet lips.
Touch me, ever so smoothly.
Hold me, firm as never before.
Love me, the way only you loved me.

Kiss me, because I’m dying to kiss you.
Touch me, because I need to feel your touch.
Hold me, because it’s the only way I can stop these tears from falling.
Love me, because I’m starting to doubt if you still do…


Passion & Love

To me it’s one of the key elements in a relationship.
It’s what keeps the relationship, the love alive.
That desire to see him again.
That desire to touch his skin.
To feel his naked skin pressed against mine.
It’s such a great urge.

So when we lost our passion, it hurt me. A lot.
It still does.
I felt as if we were losing ourselves.
Who we where.
Who we had been.
The passionate, crazy-in-love but oh so adorable couple.

I was scared that we’d lose our love.
I missed the way he looked at me.
As if I was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen.
So sexy and attractive.
I know that he used to desire me.

But his look went away.
The touches got less.
Things got… routine.

I have a feeling though, that we’ll get better.
That we can make it.
That we can once again be the couple I used to know.
The couple I used to love.


Keep The Faith

He’s the reason I smile everyday.
He’s also the reason I cry.
Times have been hard lately, with him losing his job

And me quitting school…
Our parents haven’t been easy on us as well.
Our love is getting tested, and sometimes I feel as if we’re failing the test.
But then something happens, something that gives me a tiny spark of hope again.
Even if it would continue to be this bad, I still wouldn’t leave him.
I love him so much.
He truly is my everything.
We do belong together, and I could never get tired of spending time with him.
We need each other.
So hard.
Times get rough, but we have to keep holding on.
I can see sunshine behind those grey clouds.
There are better times coming.
I know it. I can feel it.
In the past, I would’ve already left my boyfriend. End it. Break up. Simply to protect myself from getting even more hurt.
And although I have cried so many times the past two weeks,  and even though I have no clue what to do to help him, there isn’t a single part of me that thinks about leaving him.
That’s not an option.
Everyday I realise how truly important he is to me.

It’s just a phase we have to get through.

And I know we will.
If we just stay strong.
Stay together.
Our love can handle it.
We just need to keep the faith.


Love Written In Flesh

Today was the day.
She was going to get her first tattoo.
It was going to be a small one on the side of her middle finger.
It was a combination of a heart and the infinity sign.
A symbol for her infinite love, for him.
It was going to prove her love.

They hadn’t been together that long, 
but there was no doubt in her heart.
He was her true love.
The one.

It had been love at first sight, even though it took her some time to realize that.
But once she had fallen, she fell hard.
She loved him more and more everyday.

He had saved her from the dull, boring, destructive life she had been living.
He became her new reason to live.
He became her world, her everything.

And as a token of her love, gratitude, respect and loyalty, she was going to have this tattoo.

She had a fear of needles. Of their sting.
Their sharp, stinging points.
Therefore, she was grateful that he sat next to her, holding her hand.
He sometimes squeezed it to assure her that everything would be alright.
She loved him for that.

The result was beautiful.
It was exactly what she had imagined it would look like.

It had hurt like hell.
But for him, for their love, she had gladly taken it.

She loved her tattoo.
The fact that it was so little and hidden made her love it even more.
It was hers personally.
Her little secret.
Although it was no secret how deeply she adored him.

She looked into his eyes, smiling.
“Now I’ll be yours, forever.”
“You would’ve always been mine anyway”
He simply replied, smiling before kissing her tenderly.

Written in flesh.
Felt in heart and soul.
A love truly infinite.